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I have my son every weekend he's 13 through the week he's with his mother. When he's at my house he has his friend stay over he's 16 they both sleep in the same bed although his friend has a gf . I find this a bit strange and doesn't happen at his mother's house. Any advice


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1 year ago
Can't see a problem tbh don't think about it

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1 year ago
16 year old should not be "friends" and hanging out with a 13 year old.

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1 year ago
A 16 year old should not be friends nor hanging out with a 13 year old.

That seems predatory.

This guy is almost a high school graduate hanging out and sleeping in the same bed as a 13 year old.

No.

The 16 year old shouldn't be friends with your son.


Install hidden cameras in every room and outside of your home without informing your son. Advise the mother of your child to do the same.


Monitor their behavior closely.

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1 year ago
If the 16 year old isn't mentally delayed, special needs, why is he hanging out with a younger child?

What is his agenda and intentions??


Is he grooming your son??


Maybe at 13 ..it's time to end the friendship and the sleepovers in general or just between them. .

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2 years ago
My daughter 16, has a queen bed. There isn't room for another bed on the floor. When she has a friend for a sleepover over, they often sleep in the same bed (with PJ's). Friends are also given the option of the spare room down the hall.

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2 years ago
I think that's fine. My son only has a single bed. A little unsure about this tbh

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2 years ago
They are too old to be sharing a bed

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2 years ago
I disagree unless they are sleeping nude