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New Boyfriend is Circumcised
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My new boyfriend is circumcised and it’s new to me. I like the way it looks, but how do I give him a handjob? The skin doesn’t move so I’m worried I’ll hurt him.
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2 years ago
I was with a man who was circumcised and I felt like I was doing everything wrong, I spent around 6 months with him and I could never get it right. Now that I’m with an uncircumcised (intact) man I know and understand what I’m doing and I feel much more at home lol
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2 years ago
I’m with you there lol
I have spent most of my sexual life with uncut guys and for a short moment I was with someone who was circumcised. Personally everything I done with him felt off and I had a feeling I didn’t know what I was doing but on the other hand once I’m with a man who is uncut I knew what he wanted and could fulfil his needs with ease. Go team uncut lol
I have spent most of my sexual life with uncut guys and for a short moment I was with someone who was circumcised. Personally everything I done with him felt off and I had a feeling I didn’t know what I was doing but on the other hand once I’m with a man who is uncut I knew what he wanted and could fulfil his needs with ease. Go team uncut lol
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2 years ago
Circumcised or not, they all have a different amount of skin to move or not to move. If the skin on the shaft won't move at all, just use spit or lube and rub the shaft up and down or if he likes the head rubbed, do that too. Some circumcised guys can take a lot of rubbing of the head so maybe try a twisty movement while going up and down. There's some good tutorial videos on line if you're game to look but every guy likes something different so just lube up and see what he likes.
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2 years ago
So interesting...I've only been with circumcised men so feel like I wouldn't know what to do with a foreskin!
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2 years ago
I’ll be honest, I thought my boyfriend was circumcised for atleast the first 6 months or so. I was worried about the same things as you and even spoke to my friends about it. (I’ve never been with a circumcised guy before). While our relationship went on I seen it with a foreskin and questioned him about it as I’ve always seen it without a foreskin. All he does is pull it back when he knows I’ll see it lol. After all of that I’m always seeing his Willy with a foreskin.
But with your situation I can’t help you lol
But with your situation I can’t help you lol
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2 years ago
Had the same with my boyfriend to find out his foreskin stays up over the head when hard. I’m hoping this is normal as I’ve seen this in other comments online.
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2 years ago
He should see a doctor. This is not normal. The foreskin is meant to retract. Being able to pull it back is essential to be able to clean properly.
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2 years ago
It's also essential for normal sexual function.
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2 years ago
We aren’t concerned about it at all, we can pull it down below the head but it won’t come back on it’s own. It is not tight and doesn’t need a doctor to look at it.
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2 years ago
If it's not coming back up because it's tight that can be dangerous too. It's called paraphimosis and can cause serious problems if the foreskin geets stuck behind the head.
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2 years ago
Once he has pulled it back it can stay there comfortably. It’s not causing us any issues. If I’m honest I like it more lol
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2 years ago
My husbands foreskin is like this. Completely normal.
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2 years ago
Husband is circumcised, first circumcised one I have ever slept with. You'll get used to it. BJs are so much nicer than with previous natural partners. He much prefers this than a handjob. I do prefer it after he has cum, no mess under his foreskin.
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2 years ago
Lube will be your friend, otherwise foreskin will be your best friend. I mean it’s meant to be there lol
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2 years ago
My boyfriend is uncircumcised and we’ve played around with holding the skin down tightly, tried hand jobs, blow jobs and sex. To me it felt odd and kind of too different, I personally prefer foreskin
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2 years ago
What did he think though?
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2 years ago
The ONLY thing that foreskins are good for is to make handjobs easier!
Ask him what he likes. Maybe use a bit of spit on your hand to provide some lubrication. Perhaps he might like you to stroke him gently all over his penis.
My hubby is circumcised and says he really enjoys me just holding the shaft and moving up and down as much as I can. It might not be possible if your guy has a really tight circumcision.
But enjoy your first circumcised guy :-) Once I'd experienced both I was well and truly in Camp Cut. IMHO they look so much better, f*ck so much better, feel so much better, and smell so much better.
Ask him what he likes. Maybe use a bit of spit on your hand to provide some lubrication. Perhaps he might like you to stroke him gently all over his penis.
My hubby is circumcised and says he really enjoys me just holding the shaft and moving up and down as much as I can. It might not be possible if your guy has a really tight circumcision.
But enjoy your first circumcised guy :-) Once I'd experienced both I was well and truly in Camp Cut. IMHO they look so much better, f*ck so much better, feel so much better, and smell so much better.
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2 years ago
Completely opposite to you lol, I love the feeling of all the foreskin. I once had an ex with a tighter circumcision and there was no give in the shaft skin which made things difficult most of the time. Team uncut here
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2 years ago
Each to their own. lol
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2 years ago
Bj will be enjoyable . At least you know it will always be clean 😉
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2 years ago
Just another reason I prefer my partners to be uncircumcised.
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2 years ago
Agreed