I think if hubby is teasing you to wake you up for sex, then that's one thing. If he doesn't take a hint when you don't wake up, then he needs a good smack upside the head. But if he's fully having intercourse with you while you are asleep, you're as good as unconscious and he has crossed a line.

rape?!?! seriously?!?! what a complete joke. if the man and woman are married, this is a FAR CRY from rape. my wife wishes I did this with her more. you have absolutely lost your mind if you think this is rape. get your head out of your ass and wake up. I'm surprised someone like this is married to begin with. who the hell would marry someone like that?