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Mum’s Rare Condition Causes Her To Faint During Sex

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Mum’s Rare Condition Causes Her To Faint During Sex

A mum-of-three is suffering from a rare condition that causes her to pass out during sex.

Laura Crow, 28, from Southend, UK had been perfectly healthy up until she fell pregnant with her son, Dylan in late 2009. “When I was around four weeks’ pregnant, I passed out and went to the doctors. I’d never fainted in my life until then. The first doctor I saw said it was just part and parcel of pregnancy, but another doctor sent me for tests,” she said. That was when she was diagnosed with postural tachycardia syndrome (PoTs) in 2011.

Her disorder caused her resting heart rate to increase at 110 beats per minute – around 40 beats higher than the average person. But when she experiences an adrenaline rush and gets excited, her heart rate peaks at 180 beats per minute – which can cause her to pass out.

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This condition has made Mrs Crow feel anxious everytime she and her husband, Ben, 28, go between the sheets.

“Whenever I have sex, there’s a 50/50 chance I’ll faint. The fainting can happen anywhere, any time – but with PoTs, it’s usually a case of gravity taking over, so the best way for us to do it is missionary, with me lying down,” she said.

Mrs Crow recounted the first time it happened while she and her husband were into “it.” “The first time it happened it was a massive shock for both of us. Ben gets very upset – when I wake up he is very distressed, even though he never continues after I’ve passed out. Once I faint I don’t know what’s going on, but it’s very traumatic and worrying for him. But luckily it doesn’t affect our relationship. He’s the strongest rock I could ever ask for,” she said.

Thankfully, after having her next two children – Ralph, three, and one-year-old, Faith – her symptoms started to ease. “We did think twice about having more children,” she said, but at the time, she and Ben didn’t know if it was a hormonal problem that had triggered the PoTs. “It did get better – I used to pass out seven or eight times a day, but after my second and third pregnancy it’s only once or twice a day,” Mrs Crow said.

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Apart from that, Mrs Crow also struggles with other conditions linked to PoTs, including Elhers-Danlos syndrome, inappropriate tachycardia syndrome and dis-associative seizures.

But it’s not just sex that makes her pass out – other triggers include not getting enough sleep, temperature, laughing, exercise and anything that causes her heart rate to increase, like watching a horror movie.

She said she sometimes feel that she can’t perform her role as a mother to her kids, but feels blessed to have the kind of children she has.

“I can’t be the mum I want to be – I dreamed of being a “normal” mum who could do the school run by myself, do sensory classes with my babies without falling unconscious, who can stand on the playground every day without any assistance or pop out with the kids and get an ice cream.

“The children are amazing though – my six- and three-year-old are registered as young carers. Even my one-year-old will sit and stroke my hair while she waits for her dad to rush over after I’ve passed out.

“It breaks my heart that they almost have to look after me, but they’re incredible and they know no different,” she said.

Despite her condition, Mrs Crow says there’s no stopping her to do the things she loves. “I’m not going to stop laughing or having sex in the name of PoTs,” she said.

Source: Dailymail.co.uk

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