17 of The Most Riveting Questions Asked on Ask SAHM This Month!

13. Why do women get angry with the mistress and not their partner?

Top answer:

It’s called Men’s Privilege. Men have been getting away with things for centuries, and women have been the scapegoats…but it’s all changing slowly.

14. Things that are close to an orgasm?

Top answer:

Flicking that bra off as soon as you walk through the door.

15. Terminating a pregnancy. Please don’t judge.

We just found out that I’m pregnant again. We already have 3 kids, and they’re the joys of my world. But I can’t handle another baby. My husband is furious about it too. But he’s against abortion and wouldn’t support me getting one. It would be the end of our marriage. I love him and don’t want that. Is there anything I can do naturally and discreetly to prompt a miscarriage? I know this is a shit sandwich. I know I’m a horrible person. But I don’t want to have another baby. I’m fairly sure I’ll kill myself before then. Please help me.

Top answer:

It’s your body, not your husband’s. It’s you that needs to be able to physically cope with a 4th child, not him. He is being unsupportive of you, accidents happen and he is being an unreasonable asshole. If you want the termination then go for it, just take the money and do it.

If he leaves, then so be it. If he would leave you over this then it does not sound like a very good partner to have around in the first place. He can have his views but he should not expect you to live by them too. Please DON’T attempt to terminate this pregnancy yourself.

16. Why don’t people have some respect for themselves?

Try hards are the most pathetic people I know. I have stopped being friends with someone who at the age of 50 decided that she was only going to buy clothes from teen girl shops. She looks ridiculous. Her kids are embarrassed to be seen with her. People point her out on the street but she thinks they are just all jealous. No love, nobody is jealous of your stomach hanging over the top of your ripped denim undie shorts. 

Top answer:

Honestly I think that you have done your “friends” a favour. If you judge someone solely by the clothes they are wearing, I would be glad to not be your friend. I struggle with people who judge others on non-important things such as appearance. is it really that important to you that they dress and act to your standard of what is acceptable? How does it affect you and is it really any of your business what they wear? Imagine if you were judged on something so trivial, I mean you can’t be perfect.

17. What would you do if you’re with a new man and he reveals a really small penis?

Top answer:

See if he knows how to use it and compensate for it.

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