9. You’re Taking A Certain Kind Of Medication
It turns out the contraception isn’t the only medicine that can bring down your libido. Medications that are used to treat depression, in particular serotonin receptor intake inhibitors (SSRIs) can really put a damper on your sex drive. The SSRIs raise the level or serotonin in the body, which inhibits sexual reflex. Painkillers and narcotics can also have a negative impact.
10. You’re Thinking Too Much
If you’ve been having a sinking feeling that your love life is going down the tube, you might be making things worse for yourself. Many people who aren’t in the mood for sex deliberately avoid being close with their partners because they don’t want to make it seem like sex is a possibility. This is the wrong way to go about it. Romance is about more than just sex, and regularly kissing and cuddling has a positive impact on both parties, even if it goes no further.