9 Things You Always Wanted to Know About Baby Showers

In a few months, you are going to be a brand new mum as you welcome your little bundle of joy.

And of course it’s not just you who’s excited but the world around you — your family, friends and loved ones are just as excited to see the latest adorable addition to the circle.

Some of them may be too excited that they want to throw a baby shower before your little one arrives.

So here are frequently asked questions about baby showers and how to prepare yourself for it.

1. When did celebrating baby showers start?

The celebration of birth goes as far back as the ancient Egyptians and Greeks, but it has evolved from being a spiritual or religious occasion to being a celebration of the expectant mother, where friends and family shower her with gifts – hence the name, “baby shower.”

The purpose of a baby shower is to help the parents-to-be cope with the financial burden of preparing for a baby, so gifts generally centre around practical items. Like many celebrations, there are certain expectations around baby showers, so let’s take a look at the baby shower etiquette.

2. Who should host?

As baby showers revolve around gift-giving, it is quite unusual (and in slightly bad taste) for the expectant mother to throw her own baby shower. Traditionally, showers were not hosted by close family members, but now, more showers being hosted by sisters, mothers or mother-in-laws of the guest of honour as well as close friends and more distant relatives.

3. Where should the baby shower be held?

Usually it is held at either the guest-of-honour’s house, or the organiser’s house as it’s the easiest and least expensive option. Other possible venues are a local park, restaurant or cafe.

4. When should the baby shower be held?

Showers are typically held one or two months before the baby’s due date. This means that the pregnancy is far enough along for the expectant mother to feel comfortable but the baby is not likely to be born before the shower is held.

5. Who should be invited to the baby shower?

It’s best to consult with the guest of honour about the guest list so that you don’t leave out anyone (or invite someone that would not be welcome).

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