The Ultimate 30-Day Sex Challenge

Sex Challenge Day 6: Sensory Advanced – Same as Day 5, but tie them up too

Talk with your partner about the previous night, and what they liked, and what they didn’t like.  Now’s the time to turn up the heat even further!  Incorporate into your routine some of the sensory items that you loved, and do that with restraints such as handcuffs or bondage rope.

But What To Tie Up?

You can use handcuffs both in front of the body and behind.  You can tie up your partner spread-eagled, or in a kneeling position.  Just see what works and try everything to see what you might enjoy!

Here are some ideas:

• Stand your partner up and tie their hands up over their head – called ‘The Slave Girl’ position.
• Bend your partner over a flat stool and tie their hands to their ankles in a ‘Presenting’ position (with bottom in the air)
• ‘This Little Piggie’ is being hog-tied – where your arms are tied behind your back – and your legs are tied to your hands.
• ‘Sitting Pretty’ is where you sit your partner in a straight-backed chair and tie their hands behind their back and to the chair.

The Sex Challenge Rules:

With any BDSM experiences, safety always comes first.  Ensure your partner is comfortable at all times and agree on a safe word. Have a pair of scissors on hand if you are using a rope to release it quickly if you get stuck.

Spreader Bars have become popular since Fifty Shades of Grey was released

Homework:

Day 7 is a Yoni and Lingham Massage (the massage of female and male genitals).  For some pre-night research – watch some of these Youtube videos that will help you with your technique.