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The Ultimate 30-Day Sex Challenge

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The Ultimate 30-Day Sex Challenge

Sex Challenge Day 28: Send Them a Saucy Video

All during the day, send your partner photos or short videos showing what is to come.  Get them nice and hot and bothered….   The great thing about this idea is that you can start pretty tame, and work your way up to something really naughty – if you wish to!

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Ideas for the Photographs or Video:

If you aren’t comfortable doing a full nude spread-eagled shot (and work up to that anyway) – start subtle.  Think a nice cleavage shot, or show your thighs, or boys, show your abs or the outline of your bottom in your work pants.

You can use the editing function on images to write a nice saucy message or to ‘censor’ out certain body parts…  Tell your partner you might send them the full image or video if they behave!

Pop on some lingerie or a work uniform to take the video.

Try taking an image using a phallic object – lollipops, for instance, are a great ‘innuendo’.

Send your partner a naked part of your body, and ask them to send one in return, and go to and from getting saucier and saucier.

Take a photo of your sex toys and caption it with ‘I’m thinking about you’ or something similar.

Pop into some lingerie, pop on a song you love and video yourself dancing to the song.

Take a video of you masturbating.

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Safe Sexting Apps:

  • Use Snapchat so that once the image has been sent and viewed, it disappears forever!
  • Keepsafe is a picture and video vault that needs a password to use, and you can even set up a ‘fake’ account so that if someone tries to get into the vault and uses the wrong passcode, it will take a snapshot of the intruder. You can invite your partner to join so only they can see your videos.
  • Sending naughty images or videos over the internet can be a lot less incriminating if your face is never included…  But make sure you totally trust your partner before doing this.

Homework:

Tomorrow is your big day in…get all the items you need to have an amazing night. Grab a blindfold, make sure the bed has fresh linen, cushions/pillows, candles for setting the mood, and any sex toys that you need.

Jody Allen
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Jody Allen is the founder of Stay at Home Mum. Jody is a five-time published author with Penguin Random House and is the current Suzuki Queensland Amb...Read Moreassador. Read Less

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