Sex Challenge Day 15: Oral Only
Oral sex feels very different than regular sex, using your mouth to pleasure someone is fun and so pleasurable especially when they return the favour!
Safety Tips:
- Don’t engage in oral if you have cuts, sores or ulcers in your mouth at the time
- Avoid Oral Sex if your partner has an STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection)
- You or your partner has a throat infection
- It is recommended to not have oral sex if a woman is having her period.
- For men they can use a condom to ensure the giver of oral is protected
- For women, they can use a DAM which is a thin latex square that acts as a barrier to the vagina/anus and the mouth.
How to give the best Oral Sex to your Woman
- Foreplay and teasing your partner is essential – the whole anticipation of what is going to happen makes your partner super excited and wet ready for what is about to happen. Sexual tension and the build-up to the big event is fun!
- Run your fingers up and down her inner thighs, kiss her belly, back and her neck.
- After a while run your fingers over her pussy – don’t do anything yet…you are setting the scene and working up to the main event.
- Now run your fingers between her labia majora which is the outer lips of the vagina, play here for a while and build the tension.
- It is now time for the oral to start! Kiss the outside of the pubic area and start slowly.
- You continue to work around the entrance to the vagina and then work your way to the clitoris as well. You might find she prefers more attention to the clit than the other areas, if this is the case do want she is wanting and then she will be able to climax more easily.
- Work with your partner with what she wants and likes. Remember the best indicator of a job well done is the feedback you will receive from moans, groans and “Don’t Stop!”
- Make sure to have fun and enjoy each other.
How to give the best Oral Sex to your Man
Other words that can describe oral for a man: Blow Job, cock sucking, deep throat, blow bubbles, lip service, and fellatio. You might need to know this and you never know it might come in handy having extra terms for the same thing.
Many sites have said that it is not a job it is a fun exercise or massage that can be enjoyed by a couple and of course can be reciprocated.
So it shall now be called dick massage or pussy massage or the like. You can add whatever name you wish to call your dick or clit it is up to you.
So how do you give your man a mind-blowing dick massage?
- Tease your man and make him wonder when you will give his penis attention.
- Kiss his back, legs, inner thighs, neck, and ears. Work your way down and make sure to use your hands and fingers to massage and caress him as you go.
- When you finally make it to his dick you can use your fingers to play until your mouth finally starts to work its magic.
- To start lick his penis like it is an ice cream cone…do it for a while and use your hands to massage and touch his balls and bum.
- Now move to up and down movements with his dick while it is in your mouth. Move up and down and to add some interest use your nails to scratch his back.
- Keep going and keep at a certain rhythm… use the feedback of his groans and moans to know that he is enjoying it.
- If you can continue massaging his testicles and keep the rhythm going with the dick massage.. and then he will have the most explosive organism and have cum everywhere!
- Enjoy each other and remember if you don’t get it right the first time there is nothing like more practice to make you perfect. I’m sure that there will be no complaints about having to go again.
Homework:
Find out what your partner would like to do (tomorrow is Your Partner’s Fantasy – Day 16), where to take him/her, what to wear, what props would you need to make their fantasy a reality.
